I'm not sure if it would take him that long. He enjoys shooting, but it is hard for me to get him to meet new people and, of course, people you meet on the internet are bad. I had a hard time getting him to agree to start doing things with the neighbors that we visit all the time. Now, when I can't find him, he is at one of their houses. He hates crowds though so it amazes me that he does the karaoke thing with us.
He knows I came on here asking for advice/help with our situation when I first posted. Most of the time when I'm on the computer, he assumes I am on Facebook or doing research for various things that I work on.
Give us 10 minutes with him....just 10 minutes....