I was never the typical female...my husband has told me that many times. He always tells me I have way more common sense than most women. He also appreciates that he can say things to me that others might consider insensitive and I don't get moody and mad over it. His first wife apparently did not appreciate his sense of humor as I do. I just give it right back to him. We are a somewhat sarcastic household so my daughter did at least learn to deal with that and realized that she couldn't take things that were said too personally. I just wonder how many cars she will go through before she realizes that fluids in the engine are important, air in the tires is important, working brakes are important...you get the idea.
Growing up in a racing family my kids did pay attention to those details. Not dummy's about maint. and when funny noises or activity came up I got an immediate call.
The daughter never saw issue with loaning her (my) vehicle or cell phone. Had no idea why I went ape when I caught her non-licensed idiot boy friend driving her truck. He came to understand very quickly the error of his ways.
Now that she is a mother of 3 she see's the world through a completely different set of eye balls.