Wow is all I can say. I don't understand this mentality. My wife and I have three boys and while we're not rich we get buy, and we support our kids.
We've talked about adopting a child and one of the things that gives us pause is wondering how to save for college for another kid when it's going to be hard enough with the three we already have.
Any who, this is just crazy and shows a complete breakdown of the system.
This is so out of hand there is not saving it.
If you put her kids up for adoption, you will hear the people saying it's not the governments job to step in and split a family up just because she can't pay the bills.
If you try to help her get a job, I'd offer to what end? Really what job is she going to realistically get that will actually pay for this many kids? (A house big enough to hold all the kids, clothing, day care while she works, food etc.)
The third option is we as a society just pay to put them up somewhere and continue to feed and cloth them until they get old enough to be on their own and she's old enough to not be able to have kids anymore and dies.
None of these in mind are great options which is why I say it's practically out of hand.
We've talked about adopting a child and one of the things that gives us pause is wondering how to save for college for another kid when it's going to be hard enough with the three we already have.
Any who, this is just crazy and shows a complete breakdown of the system.
This is so out of hand there is not saving it.
If you put her kids up for adoption, you will hear the people saying it's not the governments job to step in and split a family up just because she can't pay the bills.
If you try to help her get a job, I'd offer to what end? Really what job is she going to realistically get that will actually pay for this many kids? (A house big enough to hold all the kids, clothing, day care while she works, food etc.)
The third option is we as a society just pay to put them up somewhere and continue to feed and cloth them until they get old enough to be on their own and she's old enough to not be able to have kids anymore and dies.
None of these in mind are great options which is why I say it's practically out of hand.