You have said this whole time that you are bothered by the word marriage being used for homosexual relationships. You have said that "If I said I was married, you used to know that it meant I had a wife." (paraphrased, without changing meaning) You are saying that the whole reason you are against "gay marriage" is the definition of the word marriage. Therefor, one can logically conclude that you think including them in the definition is detrimental to the "institution" of marriage.I disagree with the conjunction. My statements have not said anything about it being detrimental