Interesting blog posted on my FB feeds today. Some guy gave his sob story about being the victim of a bully for most of his middle school and high school years. Then said the solution was love. Love all around. Love the bullies. Love the bullied. Love, love, love.
Gag me with a wedgie.
I can't fathom that we've devolved to a point in our society that our children think death is the only way out of the bully hell. I was picked on in school a lot for being nerdy and never wearing the stylish clothes and all those others stupid reasons kids get picked on. By today's standards it would probably qualify as bullying. But it never got physical more than once. And their verbal abuse only went so far because my mom was there to be sure I knew that it wasn't the truth.
Soooooo,
What would you do if your kid came home in tears because some a$$clown at school called him fat? Do you think he could hide the daily abuse from you? What if it got physical? Would he know it would be acceptable in your eyes to return the favor and make it obvious he was no body's punching bag? Would it be acceptable?
Here's the blog post in case anyone wants to read it: Single Dad Laughing: Memoirs of a Bullied Kid
Gag me with a wedgie.
I can't fathom that we've devolved to a point in our society that our children think death is the only way out of the bully hell. I was picked on in school a lot for being nerdy and never wearing the stylish clothes and all those others stupid reasons kids get picked on. By today's standards it would probably qualify as bullying. But it never got physical more than once. And their verbal abuse only went so far because my mom was there to be sure I knew that it wasn't the truth.
Soooooo,
What would you do if your kid came home in tears because some a$$clown at school called him fat? Do you think he could hide the daily abuse from you? What if it got physical? Would he know it would be acceptable in your eyes to return the favor and make it obvious he was no body's punching bag? Would it be acceptable?
Here's the blog post in case anyone wants to read it: Single Dad Laughing: Memoirs of a Bullied Kid