Bottom line, I think the "grips will ease recoil" statements are bogus. Nothing short of lighter loads will change perceived recoil but a heavier frame and longer barrel. It might offer an initial bit of cush...but for any length of range time, forget it.
Don't take my word for it...I've only got a 637.
OP, your frame is as light and short as they come...
My advice to you is if it's uncomfortable AT ALL, you will not shoot it to practice.
If you do not shoot it, you will not become proficient with it.
With a lack of proficiency comes deadly consequences in SHTF scenarios.
If you can only afford one gun, I say sell this and get yourself something that you ENJOY shooting. Practice breeds proficiency...make it your carry.
If you have a good idea what you'd like to try, take up the offer of anyone that volunteers theirs for you to evaluate.
Also, when you're shopping around, don't just pick something because others have endorsed a brand or owned one. Start from what feels good in your own hand. You wouldn't buy a pair of Ryka sneakers without trying them on, just because I said I own a pair and they're the best. Don't shop for a handgun that way either. Try them all on for size.
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Don't take my word for it...I've only got a 637.
OP, your frame is as light and short as they come...
My advice to you is if it's uncomfortable AT ALL, you will not shoot it to practice.
If you do not shoot it, you will not become proficient with it.
With a lack of proficiency comes deadly consequences in SHTF scenarios.
If you can only afford one gun, I say sell this and get yourself something that you ENJOY shooting. Practice breeds proficiency...make it your carry.
If you have a good idea what you'd like to try, take up the offer of anyone that volunteers theirs for you to evaluate.
Also, when you're shopping around, don't just pick something because others have endorsed a brand or owned one. Start from what feels good in your own hand. You wouldn't buy a pair of Ryka sneakers without trying them on, just because I said I own a pair and they're the best. Don't shop for a handgun that way either. Try them all on for size.
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