Ok ok...I need to interject. It REALLY depends on where you are an officer at. The statistics are misleading. Some cities are worse than others. In my short 12yrs as an LEO here in Indy, I have had a friend shot in the chest (thankfully the vest caught it), I've had one friend shot and killed, 2 friends shot in the head, both surviving but one lost his eye and one lost part of his brain and it was a miracle he survived. I've had one co-worker shot in the chest with a shotgun (thankfully with bird shot). I've had one friend that shot and killed a bad guy who was hiding, it was his K9 that caught the bad guy by surprise. The bad guy shot/killed the K9 instead of the officer. The bad guy was trying to shoot the officer and the dog saved his life. I've had a co-worker shot and killed by a loon with a rifle. How about the officer that was chasing a shoplifter and was stabbed in the eye for his trouble. This does not count the dozen or so funerals I attended for LEO's in other areas of the state that died in the line of duty. If I'm a LEO of Boondock USA...I'll probably never see violence. This is MY reality so please do not talk like you know what dangers I face and the likelihood of violence. I assure you that the only people seeing their buddies getting killed/injured more often than me are military in war time. I'm not complaining, I LOVE this job and gladly face the danger every day. I put the uniform on everyday knowing that it may be the last time I see my wife and kids. But it is my calling, it is in my blood, it is an unavoidable part of my makeup. The statistics are worthless without more data. The larger cities have officers dying often, but there are more smaller departments with little crime so the statistics are skewed. I really dislike hearing that BS about the likelihood of violence. I've seen too much to believe otherwise.
I'm not trying to offend you. Any violence that you are subjected to is very personal & I'm really sorry you have to deal with that.
However, IF the only LEO's who WERE using the threat of violence that they see on the job daily were the only one's to hold the attitude that they NEED to potentially violate peoples rights every time they have a non-LEO encounter at least it would be understandable. Not acceptable still but at least understandable. But for most cops to use officer safety as a wedge to "do what's necessary to survive" rings a little hollow. Especially by your own admission that many (most?) cops WILL NEVER see personal violence in their entire careers. A large amount will never even pull their weapon in anger.
We all have jobs to do. Some are inherently more dangerous than others. Most are important to peoples quality of life. I work in a fairly dangerous field. Many people die every year in my profession. The fatality rate for my job is higher than for law enforcement (LE isn't even in the top ten). It sucks but it's part of the job.
I know stats can be skewed but if you look at the raw numbers, you can't come to any other conclusion.