The point is that the cop can talk to me how he wants, but because of the power differential, I must choose my words carefully when I talk to him.
Actually, no he can't talk to you how he wants. His department no doubt has policies covering that. He cannot demean or belittle you. Nor should he be allowed to. I'm a firm believer in treating everyone the same....like you haven't found the body in the trunk yet. Everyone is a potential threat....everyone a potential mass murderer. Everyone could potentially shoot me in the face or stab me in the neck. That treatment on my part does not include blurting out every 4 letter word in the dictionary and hurling it at anyone. You make yourself look immature and childish when you do. It does nothing to promote your ideas and argument. In fact, it has just the opposite effect.Perhaps you haven't read the entire thread.
Why would an LEO ask, "Why?" a carry pistol was loaded? He's either stupid - which I don't believe, or he's using a situation in which he has the power advantage to voice his opinion. I say in that situation he should keep it to himself.
The point isn't that I would talk to someone like that, the point is if someone asks me a condescending question, they deserve a less than pleasant answer - unless of course I have to balance the fact that they have enormous situational power over me at the moment.
The point is that the cop can talk to me how he wants, but because of the power differential, I must choose my words carefully when I talk to him.
You disparaged my maturity and my upbringing. Do you stand by that?
There is plenty of case law handed down by the Supreme Court that this falls under an officer safety issue. The veiw the short "seizure" of you handgun for the duration of the stop (usually measured in mere minutes) as a reasonable "seizure". Remember the 4th protects against unreasonable searches and seizures.
The USSC has been pretty good through the years of seeing things from an officer safety side of things, such as asking a driver to step from their vehicle. By removing someone from their vehicle an officer is in effect "seizing" them as they are not free to leave, nor would any driver be from a traffic stop. Whether it is a drunk driving case or a car full of thugs and you would like to speak to the driver from the relative safety of yoiur car instead of standing next to a car full of heathens, the USSC has recognized that officers need to do certain things to stay safe. The temporary "seizure" of a handgun, while legally owned and carried, falls under that through process.
Did I help clarify that or just make it worse?
See? This is what I'm talking about....mutual respect. I personally feel uncomfortable when someone calls me "sir". I'm due no more respect than they are. But it shows maturity and mutual respect. And it beats the hell out of what I was called this morning....several times. I really do know who my father is!!!! And never, never have I had sexual relations with my mother. (wow...that almost sounded like Bill Clinton)I have been pulled over a few times (even got to sit in the back of the squad car one time) but have only gotten a couple warnings in the last 25 years. I have always stuck with yes sir, no sir, sorry sir and thank you sir. It has served me pretty well.
See? This is what I'm talking about....mutual respect. I personally feel uncomfortable when someone calls me "sir". I'm due no more respect than they are. But it shows maturity and mutual respect. And it beats the hell out of what I was called this morning....several times. I really do know who my father is!!!! And never, never have I had sexual relations with my mother. (wow...that almost sounded like Bill Clinton)
That's just life. There will always be authority, and therefore authority figures.
You shouldn't disrespect a teacher in grade school because she asked you why your homework wasn't done, right? Or disrespect your parent because they disciplined you, right?
Hey guys I'm at work so I'm trying to reply as I can. I'm not ignoring anyone...I just have the time for long winded responses.
Actually, no he can't talk to you how he wants. His department no doubt has policies covering that. He cannot demean or belittle you. Nor should he be allowed to. I'm a firm believer in treating everyone the same....like you haven't found the body in the trunk yet. Everyone is a potential threat....everyone a potential mass murderer. Everyone could potentially shoot me in the face or stab me in the neck. That treatment on my part does not include blurting out every 4 letter word in the dictionary and hurling it at anyone. You make yourself look immature and childish when you do. It does nothing to promote your ideas and argument. In fact, it has just the opposite effect.
While I personally don't see the logic in asking the question, "why is your gun loaded", I don't see it as a violation of your rights. He can't force you to answer it. He can't arrest you for not answering it. It was a question. Perhaps he had a motive for asking it, perhaps not. I personally don't know....but you have the right to form your own opinions about it....as he had the right to express his by asking the question. As long as you're willing to demand your rights are not infringed, you cannot infringe on the rights of others in the process.
You told someone earlier in the conversation that "Your language reveals your mindset". Yours speaks volumes of your own. The mere fact is, again quoting you, "This is the kind of thing that annoys me about cops". Pure and simple, because for some reason you feel a LEO has some sort of "power" advantage over you, you object.
While I have no problem with you expressing your views or thoughts, keep in mind how you express it may be offensive others. But you have that right. I personally don't feel a string of 4 letter words is the best way of conveying your message. Apparently we differ in that.
From reading your posts I understand that you will not offer that you are carrying a firearm (again...well within your rights). What would be your response when the LEO asks you if you have any weapons on you?
I guess this thread has helped me make up my mind about informing LEOS of my carry status.
I'm still happy with my positive experience with the Shelbyville PD.
I'd rather get my gun back assembled with bullets in the mag, doesn't have to be loaded, but ya know something reasonable.
You have to take into consideration that the officer is concerned about his personal safety, they're people just like us and they don't want to end their shifts early to take a trip to the hospital/morgue.
Kind of off target here but I have a question for the LEOs that have responded..
I have never been asked to surrender my PPW when pulled over but if I was I would for both my safety and the officers safety. However I am not about to hand anybody a loaded weapon. I always carry with one in the tube. What would be the best way to let the officer know and proceed without seeming like a threat or just a jerk. It is not that I don't trust the officer but I WILL NOT hand a loaded weapon to anybody.