SIL had more than one. It was hard. They wound up adopting, twice. Two beautiful girls, in their 20s now. I know I can't make it better for you today, but It'll get better, one way or the other. Let life happen; you'll be rewarded.
Ditto, we were "high risk" had a scare early, kid arrived a month early. I'm not going to say I know how you feel, but I could imagine. Stay strong man.
I am so sorry for your loss. My wife and I went through nearly 8 years of miscarriages and our most terrible loss was the death of our triplet boys, who died of prematurity...in my arms...over a 2 day period during Valentine's week of 2007.
We finally found an invitro/high risk pregnancy Dr. that knew what he was doing and I am now the proud father of a 3 yo daughter, who is the light of my life.
Stay strong. Get in touch with me if you want... Prayers are with you, your wife, and your little angel my brother.
We had two as well. The first one feels like a fluke...The second one is like a hot knife to the gut...Our number two was the day after Columbine...I was sitting down in the waiting room with my father when I heard "Mr. Geary?"...I just kept staring at the floor and my father nudged me and said "The Doctor is trying to get your attention son.." It was the first time I had ever been called Mr. Geary in his presence where he was not who was being addressed. It is funny what you remember...
The point is...I know what you are going through and it hurts something fierce...Keep your chin up for her...Whatever pain you are going through believe me when I say hers is 100 times worse..My heart and prayers go out to both of you and continue to be the best man you can be...