Give them ONE more chance. And make it known that is the LAST chance. Just my 2 cents.so...im getting married in september of this year. the guys i asked to be my groomsmen are real close friends of mine. we have been through a lot of tough **** for many years. honestly anytime they needed a place to stay, money, or someone to just vent to i was always there for them. 3 months ago i asked everyone to be a part of my wedding. thinking that they would take it as serious as i am. i spoke to everyone about getting fitted and payments for there tux. (basically broke down exactly what they needed to do) i figured they would be responsible enough to go out on there own and get fitted. i told them by july 1st they needed to have been fitted/paid off the tux. only 1 of 4 have done this, even my best man failed to do as promised. im pretty pissed off and feel completely disrespected. makes me think that maybe im "blind" when it comes to looking at our friendship. but to look back on all the **** we have done together, to me, it doesnt seem like it wasnt a "real" friendship. i even called everyone last month telling them that they have 30 days to get everything paid off. they all promised they would get it done. now i gotta tell them to basically **** off. i feel betrayed 100% i dont even want to see these people/speak to them ever again. on one of the most important days of my life they wont be there for me, when i have always been there for them.
so with that said, has anyone here at INGO had anything like this happen to them? and how did you handle the situation or how would you handle this?
thanks