You're not going to win many friends (or not with me, anyway), by telling me what I subscribe to, or accusing me of being brainwashed or "not accepting an objective view".It's not a 'overall blame-America narrative of historical revisionism' It's realizing that America isn't perfect and recognizing mistakes and atrocities committed by our country as to try to prevent them again in the future. As long as you subscribe the narrative that we are a perfect nation projecting our greatness on the rest of the world you'll be just as brainwashed as any other patriot of any other country. Nationalism is bull and patriotism is brainwashing. You can try to justify the evil that America has done, but you can't outright deny it calling your opponents the 'blame America first' crowd and never accepting an objective view of history.
Any potential for agreement is squandered or goes by the wayside when someone brings up lists of grievances against the United States on behalf of a foreign power, especially in the skewed manner it was presented.