You wouldn't carry the gun with the slide back so why would you store it for self defense that way.It should have one in the pipe with the safety on.Also people I know carry without a chambered round because the don't feel comfortable with it but to me it is an extra step when seconds can count.As I always tell them when they ask,"if your afraid to carry with a chambered round you should probably carry a revolver"IMO.
Is it ok for my to leave my gun with the slide back? I mean its compressing the recoil spring so Im not sure if its a good idea or not. My though is in the midde of the night I dont want to have a ND as I am coming to and getting my hang gun out of the safe.
What are those kydex trigger guard thingies that spawned a capitalism vs. rip-off thread a while back? That might address the OP's concern about a ND and still fit in his safe.
I keep my main carry weapon on my nightstand with one in the chamber, and safety on, which is the same way I carry it, EVERYDAY. I have practiced flipping the safety off thousands of times, so I'm confident if an emergency were to happen, I could efficiently use my weapon in a defensive manner. When my alarm goes off at 5:15 a.m. I get up, grab my cell phone, pick up my pistol, spin to the right, so as not to muzzle sweep my still sleeping wife, and head out. My weapon will not fire unless I pull the trigger, and will not fire if a round isn't chambered. I would not feel like I had my weapon within arms reach, if I knew a round wasn't in the pipe. I understand not being comfortable with carrying one in the pipe, but, to be as ready as you can be for a bad situation, a person should do everything possible to get comfortable with it.I keep my G22 slide closed, chamber empty. magazine loaded. Waking from a slumber i don't really trust myself with a live one in the chamber.
I keep my main carry weapon on my nightstand with one in the chamber, and safety on, which is the same way I carry it, EVERYDAY. I have practiced flipping the safety off thousands of times, so I'm confident if an emergency were to happen, I could efficiently use my weapon in a defensive manner. When my alarm goes off at 5:15 a.m. I get up, grab my cell phone, pick up my pistol, spin to the right, so as not to muzzle sweep my still sleeping wife, and head out. My weapon will not fire unless I pull the trigger, and will not fire if a round isn't chambered. I would not feel like I had my weapon within arms reach, if I knew a round wasn't in the pipe. I understand not being comfortable with carrying one in the pipe, but, to be as ready as you can be for a bad situation, a person should do everything possible to get comfortable with it.