What ? If I held your loved ones hostage and held commemorative flag burnings to celebrate it , would you feel differently ?
If my relatives were living in someone else's house, actively trying to replace the head of household, we're asked to leave, and yet stayed.... no, I would not feel differently.
For some reason many Americans tend to believe the people in the embassy were just minding their business during the sacking of the Shah. No, it was base of operations actively working to undermine the revolution. They were asked to go, and yet refused.