A couple of my nephews had some issues with obeying instructions and connecting their action/inaction to the reality of the consequences pretty much from birth (even compared to other kids). So to get them started, I started teaching them about safety and the four basic rules. I got them to the point where on demand they could not only recite the four basic rules, but explain them to me in their own words. I thought they were ready!
So, the next step, I let them hold a .308 bolt gun with the bolt removed so they could feel the weight, look through the scope, feel what it was like to mount it, etc. One of them did well. The other almost immediately pointed the rifle directly at me, complete with his finger not only on the trigger, but with it pressed.
They didn't get to shoot until they were close to high school age.
So, the next step, I let them hold a .308 bolt gun with the bolt removed so they could feel the weight, look through the scope, feel what it was like to mount it, etc. One of them did well. The other almost immediately pointed the rifle directly at me, complete with his finger not only on the trigger, but with it pressed.
They didn't get to shoot until they were close to high school age.
Ayoob's book on kids and guns gives the taking care of family pets as an indicator they are ready to begin shooting. If they can show they understand the importance of feeding and medical care, etc. Seems to me that would be a tough one to judge against, especially if it's a "chore." But it makes a good point.
When he's ready, I intend to start my boy (now almost 2, so it'll be a while) right on the .22 rifle. No BBs. Toys come after safety is properly learned; safety doesn't come after playing with toy guns. (just my 2c) First couple of times will be off a table and sandbags to minimize movement. I've ROd enough practical shooting newbs running with pistols I'm not worried about ensuring he keeps a long gun on a bench pointed in the right direction.
I figure we'll spend a few weeks dryfiring at the house. When he can consistently demonstrate safe handling w/o coaching, we'll head to grandpa's where I've already started stockpiling bowling pins and clay pigeons.
Between now and then I want to invest in a .22 silencer, so bulky hearing pro will be one less distraction.
He dryfired my .45 the other night.... he just had to do what daddy was doing. and I don't want to make guns seem "forbidden." So I held it while he pushed the trigger, and he clapped when the hammer fell...
-rvb