HELP!!!!

[halfmileharry]

NOT!!!

Wait for a while and see if things work out between them. IMHO....Taboo at this point. I see nothing but problems coming from this.

 

[CountryBoy19]

Ooh, a minefield, yay! If she's "over" over it, your friend can pound sand, but it would be best to go to him and say "hey, I've been hitting it off with *** and I want to make sure this isn't going to go all pear shaped on us". He may have some bad words for you, but he may have some valuable insights. Just take anything he says with some salt, as there's the possibility of bitterness. I do think things should go better with honesty; at least maybe he won't think you "stole" her. Of course it's hard to tell with some people. May you know happiness either way.

I agree...

Hitting the eject button isn't always the right thing to do... be honest with her and your friend and feel things out first...

 

[Dead Duck]

Hey - Some of my Best Girlfriends were Table Scraps.


Remember the old saying -

One man's trash is another man's treasure.




Since you posted the dilemma on INGO -
You need to bring her to the very next INGO Event so we can all [STRIKE]check [/STRIKE]see her in person and [STRIKE]party [/STRIKE]make sure she is quality material for you.

 

[PGRChaplain]

Put yourself in his shoes, then ask her if she has any friends. Dating her will only end bad. Your BF will tell everybody you "Stole" her. Just my $.02.

 

[IndyColtsFaithful]

Guy Code infraction.. don't do it.

 

[GlockRock]

Probably gonna end up badly, but go for it anyway.

 

[KLB]

Ooh, a minefield, yay! If she's "over" over it, your friend can pound sand, but it would be best to go to him and say "hey, I've been hitting it off with *** and I want to make sure this isn't going to go all pear shaped on us". He may have some bad words for you, but he may have some valuable insights. Just take anything he says with some salt, as there's the possibility of bitterness. I do think things should go better with honesty; at least maybe he won't think you "stole" her. Of course it's hard to tell with some people. May you know happiness either way.

I agree with this.

One of your best friends or a woman you could end up spending your life with. Maybe you get lucky and get both. Then again, maybe you end up with neither. Only time will tell how any it all plays out, but I go with the it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

 

[bcannon]

Who says she won't do the same thing to you? Sounds bad but a round of slap and tickle isn't worth a friendship - Go find a different girl or can't you

 

[GlockRock]

Does she even know how you feel?

 

[printcraft]

Does she even know how you feel?

Not yet.

 

[Disposable Heart]

PULL UP!! PULL UPPPPP!!! (crashes into mountainside)

 

[IncendiaryGunner]

Are you completely sure it was not her intention?

Seems like it happened pretty quick, no?

A girl that leaves him for you, leaves you for him...

Just sayin'... if you spend too much time questing your ethics, you may just overlook hers...

 

[Dirtebiker]

Two weeks? Way to soon! Don't do it if you want to keep your friendship!

 

[CTS]

Guy Code infraction.. don't do it.

This. Unless she's really hot, then carry on my good fellow.

Also a good question, how long were they dating? Was this a multi-year/month/week thing? Your friend might be fine with it.

 

[kjf40]

I say talk to him and see what he thinks......kinda depends on if she dumped him.

If he says no then tell him its cool with you.

 

[jimbob488]

leave it alone

if he is your friend then ya better leave it alone.....besides im sure there is a reason why she is his X. maybe shes physco maybe she farts to much

 

[Colt556]

Been there, Done that............. and it wasn't pretty.