My lovely bride has been carrying a Kel-Tec P32 because it fit her hand and the recoil was tolerable. One of my favorite pocket guns is my P238 Sig SAS - I recently starting using the +1 magazine from Sig that has a pinky rest. I had her try the P238 in her hand last night with the extended magazine and she wanted to go to the range today. Here's the photo/video of me losing that P238 to her - I'll be carrying a J-Frame until I round up funds to buy myself another P238.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2uBWSi-ft10
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2uBWSi-ft10