CountryBoy19
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Should I defend it in court?
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This weekend we were camping with my wife's family at Salamonie.
My autistic BIL LOVES to fish; I guess that's just his little "safe place".
Anyways, he recently found out that his wife is expecting their first baby (not planned) and he is worried sick about it. He is worried that his job isn't enough to support a baby, he doesn't have health insurance, and most of all he is worried that he won't be a good father. I've been trying to reassure him that it will all be ok and that family will help them out if they need it etc. He is worried so much that he had a big outburst at our last family gathering, that was right after they found out.
So he was heading out fishing Saturday and I offered to go along just to talk to him; make sure he has a place to unload his cares and concerns in private. Let me preface the rest of this by stating that I absolutely HATE fishing, it's so bloody boring. I haven't gone fishing since before I was in my teens and everybody knows how much I hate fishing. I wouldn't go fishing if somebody paid me to do it, but I went with him so he could unload his cares and concerns and we could just have some good conversation etc.
Well, there we were sitting along the shore of Salamonie talking and he was fishing. He switched to a different fishing pole and so I picked up the pole he just put down. I was goofing around with it, tapping the lure on the log in front of me, messing with the reel etc, but NOT fishing.
Then the CO comes up, my BIL looks at me and says, "You should probably put that pole down just in case he thinks you're fishing". So I did that, but it was too late. CO came up and asked for our fishing licenses. I tried to explain to the CO the situation without completely embarrassing my BIL about the true reasons I came along (he is extremely sensitive). Either he didn't buy what I was saying, or he just didn't care and he was going to ticket me anyways.
I received a citation for $135, ouch
So now, the question is, just pay the fine and let "them" win, or defend it in court.
Oh, a little tid-bit of info that may make a difference. Salamonie is about 2 1/2 hours from my house so I'd have to drive there unless I can get a court date that coincides with a time that I'm going that way to visit family.
I added a poll just to help keep an eye what people think I should do, but what I really want is advice from others.
Details:
This weekend we were camping with my wife's family at Salamonie.
My autistic BIL LOVES to fish; I guess that's just his little "safe place".
Anyways, he recently found out that his wife is expecting their first baby (not planned) and he is worried sick about it. He is worried that his job isn't enough to support a baby, he doesn't have health insurance, and most of all he is worried that he won't be a good father. I've been trying to reassure him that it will all be ok and that family will help them out if they need it etc. He is worried so much that he had a big outburst at our last family gathering, that was right after they found out.
So he was heading out fishing Saturday and I offered to go along just to talk to him; make sure he has a place to unload his cares and concerns in private. Let me preface the rest of this by stating that I absolutely HATE fishing, it's so bloody boring. I haven't gone fishing since before I was in my teens and everybody knows how much I hate fishing. I wouldn't go fishing if somebody paid me to do it, but I went with him so he could unload his cares and concerns and we could just have some good conversation etc.
Well, there we were sitting along the shore of Salamonie talking and he was fishing. He switched to a different fishing pole and so I picked up the pole he just put down. I was goofing around with it, tapping the lure on the log in front of me, messing with the reel etc, but NOT fishing.
Then the CO comes up, my BIL looks at me and says, "You should probably put that pole down just in case he thinks you're fishing". So I did that, but it was too late. CO came up and asked for our fishing licenses. I tried to explain to the CO the situation without completely embarrassing my BIL about the true reasons I came along (he is extremely sensitive). Either he didn't buy what I was saying, or he just didn't care and he was going to ticket me anyways.
I received a citation for $135, ouch
So now, the question is, just pay the fine and let "them" win, or defend it in court.
Oh, a little tid-bit of info that may make a difference. Salamonie is about 2 1/2 hours from my house so I'd have to drive there unless I can get a court date that coincides with a time that I'm going that way to visit family.
I added a poll just to help keep an eye what people think I should do, but what I really want is advice from others.
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