When I went to get me a new gun a couple weekends ago I was in the market for a 9 or a 40. The salesman asked if I had shot the 45.I told him that I do but it kills my wrist for a couple of days. So he tells me the 40 will recoil even harder. Do you guys agree? If so what 40 would u recommend. I dont mind shooting the G30 but its just not fun to target shoot with. I loveee the G19 that I ended up,but still have a 40 on my wishlist