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Plinker
Just my opinion but for a first handgun I like the Ruger SR9C or for more oomph SR40C. Why I like it: Gives more capacity than a revolver. A lot of gun for the $$ with Ruger reliability. If you get the 9mm you can practice cheaper than anything out there other than a 22LR. Personally I like the thumb safety especially for concealed carry. I also like the versatility of the two magazines. The larger gives you more capacity and a getter grip, the smaller one gives you better concealability. If it were my gun after chambering a round and setting the safety I would load up both mags. The large one I would keep in the Ruger for home defense, the smaller I would switch to when going out concealed.
All the Best.
All the Best.