And I'm beginning to understand that you don't grasp how our system of government work.
In a nutshell, as it applies to this gay marriage decision, the government tried to make a law that excluded gays. The people asked for it. I'm right there with you on all that. But it turns out that our government has a Constitution it must follow. That Constitution is a list of things it cannot do.
Again, turns out, one of the things it cannot do is make a law that excludes gays. So the judge found, rightly, that the government does not have the power to do what the people asked it to do.
So no you don't have to overturn community standards in all cases because you did so in one. What you do have to do is overturn them when they conflict with the Constitution.
You don't but I do, like the fact that we have a Constitution.
Your argument is not responsive to mine. There is no "right to gay marriage" in the Constitution; marriage isn't mentioned nor are homosexuals or heterosexuals. In order to find a "right" to marriage, you have to twist other Amendments, which were added for other purposes, to discover that "right". Having done this, any other behavior which can be claimed under some pretext to be "discriminatory and denying equal protection under the law" is subject to being found a "right". Either respond to that argument or drop it.
The fact that I don't agree with you doesn't mean that I don't "like the fact that we have a Constitution", it just means I don't agree with your interpretation.