shibumiseeker
Grandmaster
Sounds as if she just wants to say hello and was trying to be up front and honest with your wife. I'm friends with several old GFs and my ex wife. Talk to yer wife and see what she thinks. It could be perfectly innocent or it could become a Penthouse Letter. Who knows....
I agree.
Whether or not it's something hinky, Longbow is completely capable of controlling his side of the situation. I'm still friends with most of the people with whom I've been involved and my hanging around with them does not threaten my existing relationships in any way. Even if they wanted to get involved again it's up to me whether that could happen or not. That she asked Longbow's wife and invited her to be present tells me she is very aware of how it can look and wants to avoid causing him problems.