shibumiseeker
Grandmaster
Argue all you want, you lack respect for anyone that you don't ask before you enter their home.
I will argue it. Just because you think it means that doesn't make it so. You may lack respect for someone if you carry in their home when you know it's something that deeply bothers them, but since everyone has all sorts of "rules" they have when they are in their homes it's not incumbent upon a guest to try to ascertain them all beforehand. Respect is a two-way street, and the host-guest relationship is not as simple as you are making it out to be.