You aren't the only broke person on this board. There is no way to say that without being labeled a jerk, but for goodness sake you aren't the only one, and telling us about it won't change anything. FWIW, people offer free training advise here anyway.
A Police officer inlightened me. " An auto Pistol is just a club unless there is one chambered". He pointed out; If your left arm is grasped in an altercation, you can't chamber a round. He showed me by grabbing my arm, at the wrist, out the car's driver side window. I was unable to chamber a round in my Sig.
The question wasn't about affording training! You state that you carry two different ways depending on situation! Do you train(ok, PRACTICE) both ways? If so, which way are you going to go when the SHTF, do you know? As far as affording training, several schools are well within the affordable range for all but the most destitute!(+/- $300-400) and several offer videos(+/- $100), that while not as good as hands on, will at least get you started in the right direction. If you can afford a firearm and ammunition, you CAN afford training in its proper use.
BTW, I pull the pins on my smoke, hell with lighting 'em!
Oh contraire, I have a 3 and 4 y.o., but I also practice weapon retention, so they don't take it away from me while we are playing. If you are not comfortable with a loaded weapon around your children, you probably shouldn't have a loaded weapon. You, seem to be the one that cannot comprehend, so take what you will from the good advice others have offered, or not. What is "silly" is I said nothing about asking TO from BG's, but, reading is fundamental.I know, but I was simply stating that I can't afford to have proper training so I take what I learn here and from other sites like this and practice what I learn. Sure it's flawed. But no one acts flawlessly under pressure either. Unless you have zen like training you practice! LOL I can barely afford to be armed. Let alone be able to afford 300-400 dollars in training. That's neither here nor there. My point has gone way off course here.
I'm just saying I do not carry a round in the chamber when I'm carrying AND playing with my kids. If that is beyond your comprehension then either you don't have young kids, or don't care. I carry with a round in the chamber now because I am comfortable with it while I'm out. But if my house is locked up then no one's getting in here without taking some time. Which gives me plenty of time to lock and load because I do carry at home and refuse to lock it up. All this "are you going to ask the BG for a TO" is nonsense so why would you say it? To make a point? That's not making a point. That's being silly.
I guess if you people can't understand my reasoning then why bother. I will leave you all be cause this is nonsense.
If you are not comfortable with a loaded weapon around your children, you probably shouldn't have a loaded weapon.
Oh contraire, I have a 3 and 4 y.o., but I also practice weapon retention, so they don't take it away from me while we are playing. If you are not comfortable with a loaded weapon around your children, you probably shouldn't have a loaded weapon. You, seem to be the one that cannot comprehend, so take what you will from the good advice others have offered, or not. What is "silly" is I said nothing about asking TO from BG's, but, reading is fundamental.
There ya go.
Savage, just what do you think is going to happen? Your kid is going to disarm you? Your holster is going to come out of your pants? Gun is going to mysteriously "go off"? What?
My son will be 3 on Christmas. If there is a pistol on my person, there is a round in the chamber, period; I fail to see how his presence would or should make any difference in that regard.
There ya go.
Savage, just what do you think is going to happen? Your kid is going to disarm you? Your holster is going to come out of your pants? Gun is going to mysteriously "go off"? What?
My son will be 3 on Christmas. If there is a pistol on my person, there is a round in the chamber, period; I fail to see how his presence would or should make any difference in that regard.
If a gun is banged around enough then there is that possibility, however slight, that it could discharge.
I'm not telling anyone how to parent but if you are willing to take that risk with your kids that's your buisness. I choose not to take that risk.
You're not going to convince him with logic, quotes from folks who know, or anything else. I'm with Shooter 521, outtie!I would really recommend you get a copy of Massad Ayoob's "Stressfire." He goes quite a bit on the physiological effects of fear/stress in a life-threatening situation.
Sitting calmly in your home, with no immediate threat, it may seem the simplest of things to remember: at home, rack the slide, when out don't rack the slide. But when somebody is pounding on your door with an axe, or blowing through the lock with a breaching charge, or when that letter carrier with a package your wife had to sign for turns out not to be a letter carrier after all, or the rioters are threatening to break down the door by sheer weight of the press and you have to worry where the kids are and make sure they're as safe as you can make them (and, incidentally, make sure they're not in your line of fire), when you are suddenly faced with the imminent danger of having to take a human life or possibly losing your own, then trying to remember whether in this situation you rack the slide or not is just one more bit of distraction that you don't need.
When police departments started going to semi-auto handguns there were a lot of instances of police simply forgetting to flip off the safety. They'd pull the trigger and nothing happened. The "fix" was drill, over and over again: draw, aim, safety off. Draw, aim, safety off. Over and over until it becomes so automatic that no thought is required. It just happens even when adrenaline is pumping and one's ability to think goes south along with things like fine motor controls.
The problem is, you can't get that kind of automatic response when you've got two entirely different responses (rack the slide under some circumstances, don't rack the slide under others). That kind of duality leads to the need to make a conscious choice.
When you are faced with a life or death situation, the "shoot/no shoot" decision is enough of a decision to be dealing with. You don't need to be clouding up your brain with extras.
In the end, it's your choice, of course. But this is the advice I give, based on my own rather limited experiences with fear and stress and with what I've read and hear from people who have been on the sharp end.
Incidentally, if you are worried about your children's safety around firearms, I would also recommend you run, don't walk, to get a copy of Massad Ayoob's "Gun Proofing your Children." Highly recommended. (In fact, just consider a blanket recommendation--sight unseen in some cases--for just about anything he or Col. Cooper have written. They may not always, IMO, be right, but they are always worth paying very close attention to.)
Since he's gone from "never carrying with a round chambered to "carrying with a round chambered except at home" I think that horse may not be so dead as you think.You're not going to convince him with logic, quotes from folks who know, or anything else. I'm with Shooter 521, outtie!
I give up. I'm stoopid and that's the end of it. I don't care anymore. I have enough stress to worry about besides someone telling me I'm stupid because I don't carry with a round in the chamber at home playing with me kids. So I'm out also. Done with this thread.
.......... I know I have been lucky, but I am tired of killing. I hope I never have to take another persons life. Howere, if I must shoot, I will not shoot to wound or just to stop the perp. It is shoot to kill, or do not fire your weapon at all. A firearem has two major purposes: to punch holes in paper or to kill. Period.
............ I have no problem with killing a bad guy. Form some reason I didn't think of him as a bad guy...........