IDK about these other guys but getting married and having a family is easily the best thing I have done with my life. If she is the right one it will be awesome.
My wife is a retired addictions counselor. These type of lady's are fun to share a life with. Sorta ying and yang. Still loving it!See that's the thing, a few years ago I made a horrible mistake by trying the whole marriage thing out with a lady I found out was bat crap crazy. Spent the next few years rebuilding my life. But on the other hand things are totally different. She has her money, I have my money, no joint bank accounts, no joint credit cards, her bills, my bills, 50/50 on house bills, she has her hobbies, I have mine, and we share a few (including shooting). She is emotionally stable and the biggest thing I think, we don't "need" each other, we want to be with each other. If she left me tomorrow for whatever reason I'd be devistated for sure, but I wouldn't be screwed financially, have to move, or whatever. Plus she understands my humor.
I should probably stop trying to justify this in my head by seeking approval of others on an Internet forum and let go of my fear of commitment stemming from my past experiences.
Did I mention she's a psychologist?
Fight back, throw a Playboy on the stack!
See that's the thing, a few years ago I made a horrible mistake by trying the whole marriage thing out with a lady I found out was bat crap crazy. Spent the next few years rebuilding my life. But on the other hand things are totally different. She has her money, I have my money, no joint bank accounts, no joint credit cards, her bills, my bills, 50/50 on house bills, she has her hobbies, I have mine, and we share a few (including shooting). She is emotionally stable and the biggest thing I think, we don't "need" each other, we want to be with each other. If she left me tomorrow for whatever reason I'd be devistated for sure, but I wouldn't be screwed financially, have to move, or whatever. Plus she understands my humor.
I should probably stop trying to justify this in my head by seeking approval of others on an Internet forum and let go of my fear of commitment stemming from my past experiences.
Did I mention she's a psychologist?
Marriage is a wonderful institution, everyone needs to be institutionalized once in their life.
This place will hook you up in more ways than one!!!!
Where is that place.
IDK about these other guys but getting married and having a family is easily the best thing I have done with my life. If she is the right one it will be awesome.