While we're on the topic - would you guys go to a kind of "civil commitment ceremony" for gay friends/family? Or congratulate them on something like that?
What I say now and what I do in the moment "may" be different.
My heart tells me no on both.
I knew a chaplain whose husband worked for a company in Chicago. When they had their gay pride parade a few years back, they both were there and in many ways showed support for the gay parade. We had a long discussion about that (on FB). She was showing support for her husband who was actually showing support through his work. He does not work there any more.
Everyone likes a parade.....we need to be careful of the wolf in sheeps clothing.