He's got two step kids and a wife with one of his own on the way. He has quite a few reasons not to do anything stupid right now.
So you already know what you want to do and you are just here because you want to argue over it?
Truth is you KNOW what you are going to do and YOU KNOW it's not the smart thing to do but you are going to do it any way. You are just looking for some one to tell you to do what you already want to do.
That's not going to be me. Yer on your own from here buddy. Good luck.