I had 2 HK P2000sks with one chambered in 40 and 9. The 9mm held 10rds, while the 40 held 9rds. There was no noticeable recoil difference between the two. If the 40 has too much snap for you, maybe you should hit the gym My everyday carry is the Glock 27 as of right now, but my personal preference is the 357Sig which hands down is the best shooting round I have encountered. I don't mind it being a little more expensive as it makes itself readily available when I need to buy it.