Well until the SHTF, I'm going to try and stay away.
Call me old fashioned, but I was raised to be who you are, not what you have a fetish for.
Thing is, it's not always sexual. Be who you are, sure. If someone puts on cat makeup and ears, though, and that's the extent of it, it doesn't harm you or anyone else... including them. That's my take on it, anyway.
Blessings,
Bill