I'm echoing Rhino with the S&W 10xx series. I've got a 1006 stainless in 10mm that is an absolute sweetie to shoot. Great weight in the hand, little recoil, and accurate. And yes, reloading 10mm is a good idea if you are going to shoot much. 9mm is a heck of a lot cheaper, but it's nice to have that 10mm smoothness and accuracy, with the bigger punch.
Good luck on it--
Good luck on it--