That ain’t good enough!!!

[bwframe]

I think it really takes both having thicker skin and encouraging politeness or general common respect. Hard reality is sometimes someone has to tell a person they are wrong. Or they need to be informed that what there's something better. Maybe it's a technique learned from training or maybe it's a better suited gun for a specific discipline of shooting. Or maybe it's telling someone they need to stop putting their Sig ___ in a generic Uncle Mike's pancake holster and expecting it to be secure.
Likewise, we need to be mindful when sharing info that we need to be careful how we say things. It's hard to get context or intent from written words.

I mostly agree!

However the "thicker skin" talk has been a blanket excuse for those who are part of the problem rather than the solution.

 

[Bassat]

Like any other place where two or more people gather, INGO includes folks with a variety of opinions. If everyone here would just agree with my ramblings, I'd have a much nicer time. And the rest of you would never come back.

Sometimes, just sometimes, noobs come here with firmly held false beliefs. IE: expansion is NECESSARY, or the only real caliber for SD is .45ACP, or the only real gun is a 17-round capacity bottom feeder. I have been shooting for more than 50 years, and have a modicum of knowledge and wisdom to share with anyone who displays any interest. Certainly, there are folks here willing to hold civil discussions to correct what they believe are flaws in my information. I am open to those discussions and have learned at least a thing or two by being a member here. On the other hand, some folks are incapable of a polite discussion. I may well be mistaken for stoking my J-frame with LWC ammunition, or preferring to carry guns with a DAO-style trigger. I am willing to listen to reasonable arguments that my position may not be the best. What I am not willing to engage in is a conversation that start with, "You are an idiot. Only a fool would carry a 6+1 CM9.", or such comments. Personal attacks are more and more becoming a part of American (civil?) life.

I have been personally attacked on INGO for: positing that Kahr is a decent gun, stating that my S&W triggers, out of the box, leave a lot to be desired, that the P32 is a viable SD option, and that shot placement is way more important the caliber, in a SD situation. Or it may just be the way I perceive the comments of those who disagree with me. Bottom line: this is a public forum. Behave like your mother is listening, and your father is taking his belt off. Oops! That belies my age. To quote Rodney King, "Can't we all just get along?" Damn, that dates me, too!

 

[Expat]

Correct!

Documentation is important. Bold claims, not so much...

That’s true. The President of our club is a pretty good shot. In his case I know it isn’t just talk because his name makes it in the ISRPA newsletter results pretty often. Sometimes here, I wonder.

 

[thunderchicken]

I mostly agree!

However the "thicker skin" talk has been a blanket excuse for those who are part of the problem rather than the solution.

True
But to be fair, so long as they are within bounds established by Mod's then when does one person's feels override another person's privilege to express their thoughts? I said privilege because this is a privately owned site and we all need to stay within the boundaries.
But, I do agree "thicker skin" is a phrase used too often to justify being a DB.

 

[bwframe]

... Behave like your mother is listening, and your father is taking his belt off...

 

[55fairlane]

Behave like my mother is watching & my father is taking off his belt? That's not funny.....my father beat me until I was deap in my teens, it stopped when I stabbed him.

 

[WebSnyper]

Behave like... your father is taking his belt off.

Sounds like some Scout Master Kevin action there...

Sorry... Couldn't help myself.

 

[WebSnyper]

Behave like my mother is watching & my father is taking off his belt? That's not funny.....my father beat me until I was deap in my teens, it stopped when I stabbed him.

Well, I guess we now know the answer to my previous question of "why so serious"...

 

[55fairlane]

Well, I guess we now know the answer to my previous question of "why so serious"...

I don't get it

 

[ditcherman]

OMG I just can't anymore someone else take over.
This thread is hilarious.