no Jedi, you don't want an XDm, you want an M&P, which i am bringing for you.
But your M&P is a 9mm right? And now that I can reload .45 I think (medium term) I would like to stick to the .45 class for a while. So yes I would like to try an XDm in .45. I liked the feel/shot of Clif's .40 XDm. I did like your M&P and I'm sure I will like it even more with the slim strap as well but want to keep my options open.