And that makes perfect sense. For stationary camping there is no need to go ultra-light and forgo many of the amenities of 'civilization' that backpackers give up.@melensdad
nah I'll skip that stove. I have a propane stove and also a tri fuel pocket stove but prefer the grill instead, especially for what we were doing.
Its all about what your intended reason for being outdoors is all about.
BACKPACKERS go out to walk and see nature, they "camp" out of necessity and look at "camping" as a place to sleep while they are out walking trails; typically done solo, in pairs or small groups. While CAMPERS typically go out into nature to enjoy nature at a bit more of a distance, they pick their spot, set up and enjoy the "camping experience" which includes sitting around the campfire, talking with others (often large(r) groups of people), etc. The activities center around the "camp" with camping and portability is not essential. The hikers/backpackers activity is the walking/exploring/seeking and therefore the "camp" part of their activities is just a necessity so they can go farther afield.
Neither is right, nor wrong.
Both are very different in focus.
Just depends on what you like doing.