My mother in law is a nice enough person, kinda whacky but tollerable. She married a guy thats a nice enough guy, full of crapola on alot of things but tollerable. My problem is that even when my wife is not home they call me and invite thelselves over or just pop in unanounced. Tonight she calls and I tell her that her daughter is not home, she will be gone all evening. She then asks if we still have any of the babana nut bread that my wife made. I said yes, then she tells her husband that I just invited them down for some banana nut bread. I DID NOT!! I want to be left alone. How do you tell these folks without hurting their feelings to beat it? I hate thinking about cleaning my garage out but I guess it has to be done so I can park in there so they dont know im home. Why cant they just stay home until christmas, birthdays and cookouts??? I soooo dont need any new friends.