I probably was anticipating the shot when using 9mm or 45acp but have been using my G44, 22lr. No recoil there. I do have small hands and the grip can be a challenge, mostly on my revolvers.Stop its antibiotics.
Seriously, what's causing you to heel it? Are you anticipating the shot?
Sometimes pistols just don't fit your hand. I'll do the same thing with a Glock or the A1 version of the 1911.
Try rotating your hand downward so you have more pressure on the web of your hand between thumb and forefinger.
Bob Vogel calls it "pinching into the gun", it's the same idea as Wabatuckian's. All about getting your grip as high up on the gun as possible with both the shooting and support hand. Vids should help explain it
I'm confused, what are you considering the target, your point of aim or the whole paper? As I've gotten older I found that focus on the front sight has become impossible because what I'm seeing is 2 fuzzy front sights. Red dot solved that problem for me because it moves my focus to the target rather than the front sight.I will have to try this technique. To be honest, I always hit my target but my shot is not always where I want it to be on the target. I have pretty much decided it was my eyes and wearing progressives. Trying to find where and how to look. Look at target or the front sight and such. I decided on focusing in on the front sight and my aiming improved quite a bit and thought, well, this is it. But these 2 vids gave me some insight and I am gonna try changing my grip. It makes sense to me.
Thanks to the OP for asking.