Instead of getting all silly with it, lets be honest.
If you want a lighter trigger in your gun, that's your business. I don't find factory S&W triggers to be that great anyway, and spent a lot of time honing mine in the way I wanted it.
The first thing I would recommend to you is to buy trigger and hammer shims to take as much side to side play out of the action as possible.
The next thing is to lighten the trigger rebound spring. You can clip 1 coil off without much concern but if you still want to go lighter you really need to just buy a lighter spring. If you go wild with clipping coils, you'll wind up with a trigger that won't reset all the way forward, or will be sluggish to reset. You'd have to clip more than a couple coils though. Keep in mind how cheap of a part this spring is, if you screw it up, a local gun shop will likely have a replacement for less than a dollar.
If it's a self defense gun, I would not recommend playing with the hammer spring. Not for a safety issue, but because you don't want to compromise the primer striking force. That would not be good if you needed to use the gun in self defense.
Do Not play with the angles on the sear or on the hammer, I'd even recommend against touching them at all besides cleaning them off. A fair amount of dry fire will smooth up the trigger just fine, especially if you do it AFTER you install the shims, so everything wears in nice and even. The only playing around with engagement surfaces I did was to actually make the single action shelf on my gun a bit larger so that the drastically reduced pull weight wouldn't make the trigger excessively sensitive, and still feel positive.
Also remember, when oiling it for reassembly, to use a very small amount of something fairly thin. If you gunk it up, you'll just get a bunch of crud stuck down in the action.
Don't fear it! Have fun. To save yourself some heart ache, make sure to get some flat ground screw driver bits so you don't mess up your screws, and watch some videos on youtube to see how things come apart, and some tips on removing the side plate as cleanly as possible. In all honesty, if it's a gun I'm ever planning on using for self defense, I wouldn't trust someone else to do the work. Even if I screw up doing it, I'll know what I did and what needs fixed instead of having the gun returned to me without knowing every detail about what was done.