That if you were riding a bus that hit them while they were walking across the street... when you disembarked the bus, you'd tip the driver GENEROUSLY and grab your lawn chair and a beer so you could just sit down and enjoy your beverage while watching them "bleed out" in the street?
Or is it just me?
What?!?so the same thing I say to a guy about maybe needing help is insulting when said to a woman?
OK OK OK OK OK, I am SORRY I bought the Glock!!!!!!
What?!?
What the hell does gender have to do with it? There's some crazy going on, but it ain't mine.
I thought the "or anyone for that matter" would have been a pretty big clue that it wasn't about JG being female. It's about the assumption implicit in your statement: that a person can't be that royally pissed off without a) having it affect other areas of his life and b) needing professional help for it.Thought you were mad because JG is female. It was the only circumstance I could imagine where someone could view my statement as offensive.
I give up (again). I am tired of defending myself against ridiculous people whom I will never satisfy. Why don't you save your outrage for when I **** YOU off instead of defending those who don't feel attacked.
I think you're ok here JG. Now if you were driving the bus in your scenario then that would just be wrong.That if you were riding a bus that hit them while they were walking across the street... when you disembarked the bus, you'd tip the driver GENEROUSLY and grab your lawn chair and a beer so you could just sit down and enjoy your beverage while watching them "bleed out" in the street?
Or is it just me?
That if you were riding a bus that hit them while they were walking across the street... when you disembarked the bus, you'd tip the driver GENEROUSLY and grab your lawn chair and a beer so you could just sit down and enjoy your beverage while watching them "bleed out" in the street?
Or is it just me?
How 'bout if it was a family member? Any of those out there?
I do have some family that I no longer speak to. Have not in years now, my parents actually, I don't wish them any harm though. There was a time I may have wished horrible things for my ex wife. A messy divorce can do that to you but as with most things time will ease the feeling a bit, most of the time people get what they have coming eventually anyway.
I have always been a pretty trusting and open person and as I have grown older I have realized for me it is easier not to really be around people other than my wife and kids. I have had 2 "friends" steal from my home, my parents have stolen from me multiple times (emptied my bank account once while I was in the hospital), my sister stole from me once (almost 1,000).
Point is there are bad people in all of our lives at some point, trick is learning to get and keep them out of your life. No point in hating somebody.
Also, have you read anything on INGO? JetGirl's post is mild compared to what appears regularly in capital punishment threads.
Wow. That's about the most hateful, spiteful thing I've ever read anywhere.
Felicia Day recently posted this video of a 7-year-old girl doing some kata or something (I don't know martial arts), partly to say how amazing she thought the little girl was, and partly to display the kind of dickheads the internet produces in the comment section.
[video=youtube;DZlUgkTGeAQ]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZlUgkTGeAQ[/video]
Seriously, click through to YouTube and read the comments. This is why we can't have nice things.
I don't think I could watch anyone die without trying to help them. I think I can honestly say that I don't hate anyone, not even the people who have hurt me. I hope nobody hates me so much that they would take pleasure in my dying. I have probably pissed off my fair share of people in my years. So I try to be forgiving, hopefully others would cut me some slack too. With most people that is effortless or close to it. There have been a few for who it hasn't been easy to forgive, it's an ongoing process, not just "do and forget". I used to have a bad temper, its mellowed over the years. My brother was my best man at my wedding. In his speech he said, once you're Mark's friend, your friends for life. That was one of the nicest things anyone ever said about me. To me, a friendship is worth far more than a grudge, so forgiveness is worth the effort when there is any.
I have a list of those people. It grows faster than my garden.