Couple nights ago, I was laying in bed probably around 1 am. Wasn't asleep or dreaming. GF asleep next to me. Suddenly I heard what sounded like someone 'testing' one of our doors before actually kicking it in.
My brain went into hyper reaction mode knowing I had to beat the intruder to the punch. I jumped out of bed, entered my code, and had my M&P down by my side, finger outside of the guard in case my kids came running down the stairs to my side.
By this time, my GF was still laying in bed and asking in a quivering voice if I was alright. I know it scared the crap out of her and after waiting and listening for any action to occur, I told her it sounded like someone was attempting to break in. I went back to bed, she went back to sleep saying I didn't hear anything.
I'm very glad that no one entered the home, and that I was prepared within seconds to defend my families lives. My GF on the other hand saw it as a dangerous act of paranoia.
Next day, I explained that I was awake and what I had heard and that I was fully aware of where the kids were and that I was sorry that she was scared by it all.
What can I do here to get her to stop hating guns and thinking I'm just a whacked out combat vet?
My brain went into hyper reaction mode knowing I had to beat the intruder to the punch. I jumped out of bed, entered my code, and had my M&P down by my side, finger outside of the guard in case my kids came running down the stairs to my side.
By this time, my GF was still laying in bed and asking in a quivering voice if I was alright. I know it scared the crap out of her and after waiting and listening for any action to occur, I told her it sounded like someone was attempting to break in. I went back to bed, she went back to sleep saying I didn't hear anything.
I'm very glad that no one entered the home, and that I was prepared within seconds to defend my families lives. My GF on the other hand saw it as a dangerous act of paranoia.
Next day, I explained that I was awake and what I had heard and that I was fully aware of where the kids were and that I was sorry that she was scared by it all.
What can I do here to get her to stop hating guns and thinking I'm just a whacked out combat vet?