Ok, I get it some sales jocks just don't have a blessed clue what a woman wants in a firearm. At the point they realize they aren't listening (nor do they care) they should also shut their own mouths. I walked by the sales counter today doing some ogling of my own and two sales jocks were helping this couple with two small kids, obvious new gun owners, pick a pistol for the wife. They chose two Rugers for her in 380. One sales person said to not carry chambered because it takes just a second to chamber a round and the other chimes in with how you can keep the safety on too... What the what??? Don't have a round in the chamber AND keep the safety on! I couldn't take it anymore I butted in and gave my two cents and while one of the sales jerks were actually making snorting sounds behind the counter! I suggested she rent and fire them before buying and consider keeping one chambered... Ugh, this is why I never buy firearms from Gander!!!